From the monthly archives: February 2015
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This week I spent a couple of hours flying on a plane to the far north of Queensland.

During the two flights it took to get me to the tropical north, I read an interesting book; Focus (Daniel Goleman).

One of the points that jumped out at me was how distracted and possibly disconnected we can all become in an age where technology and information is at our fingertips all the time.

It was exacerbated by travelling with a whole bunch of adults with smart phones, tablets and laptops. Heads down missing the beautiful scenery as we arrived in Cairns.

Missing the crazy chaos of Cairns airport filled to the brim with tourists and travellers.

Missing the cloak of mist on the range in front of us and the slowing in pace since we left Brisbane.

In my lifetime we have moved rapidly from landlines and letters to social media platforms and streaming.

All day and all night you can access everything. All of the time.

The advent of all of this new technology also brings new dilemmas as a member of our society and a parent.

How much technology is too much?

How much screen time should my kids have?

Should babies be allowed to have access to technology?

What about hand-writing?

How can I prepare my kids for the future?

How young is too young for owning a mobile/smart phone?

I don’t have all of the answers to these big questions, but after reading about some of the pitfalls and potential benefits, I plan to be more mindful when I get home.
In the meantime I plan to enjoy the sights of the far north while I am here, and leave my smart phone in my bag.

Enjoy xx

Wanda Linda (one of our faves!)

In most states now, kids are back and school and the weekly ritual of homework has begun.

Christmas holidays are fast becoming a distant memory, and so we are all getting back to our daily, nightly and weekly routines.

In our house a big part of our routine is reading.

Do you read to your kids?

Both my husband and I have read to our kids since they were teeny.

Part of the motivation is selfish. We love reading, so therefore why not encourage the kids so we can all get quite reading time!

The other motivation is sheer pleasure.  reading a funny, silly or interesting book with your kids is a great way to escape the world, the housework and any leftover grumpiness at the end of the day.

It’s hard for anyone to stay grumpy when you are reading about Wanda Linda’s Terrible Underpants, or reading about Winnie the Witch zapping her cat one too many times…

I won’t say it’s always fun though. There are some nights when the thought of reading to the kids, is, well, less than top of my list.  If it’s been a big day, a rough week or you are just plain tired, it is hard to find the energy.

Therein lies the bit that no one tells you in all those articles.

Sometimes it is not fun.

Sometimes, you pick a dud book (oh and there are a load of these around) and it is just dull.

Sometimes the kids are over everything and will only listen for two pages.

You know what though? That is ok.

It is perfectly normal.

Reading to your kids is like running a marathon, not a sprint.

It takes consistency, effort, interest and your time, every day.    If you want your kids to love reading, they have to see that it is something you love to do, and that it is part of their routine.

Night time, daytime, juts after lunch time (oh now I am riffing like Dr Seuss!).

Anytime is fine, just make it very day.

Stuck on where to start or low on inspiration? Here are a few to get your started…

  • Think of themes.  Maybe go with holidays (Christmas, Easter, etc). Sea creatures, dinosaurs, fairies.
  • Read the book first.  If you have a new book, take a few minutes to read it first.  Test it out. Is it interesting? Funny? Do the words rhyme?
  • Get online and get some ideas, have a look here for some fab read aloud tips
  • Visit your local library. Go to story time, ask a librarian for help/ideas/suggestions
  • Let your child choose the book
  • Get older siblings/ cousins/ friends to take turns reading.
  • Happily read the same book, every night, for weeks on end if that is what your child wants.  I think I might be able to recite every Hairy Maclary book by heart, but I am still happy to read all about that crazy dog and his mates.

Happy reading folks!

Enjoy xx

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